by: Ruth Purple
“Not tonight, Josephine” even the famous conqueror Napoleon Bonaparte can decline the carnal needs from the Empress Josephine because of stress… well I’m not sure about that but basically most couple compromise their sex- life because of too much pressure. If only I’d get a penny for every man and woman who complains of having less and less sex, I’d be a very rich woman by now.
One of the main reasons why there is a decline in a couple’s sex life, especially for long term lovers is the dominant presence of anxiety, distress, pressure coupled with over familiarity and too many obligation. Some couples may be unaware with the fact that sex plays an important role in the relationship; it keeps you closer and more intimate.
Believe me, a sexless union will eventually takes its toll. The best way to prevent this from happening is to re-think your views about it. Never think that sex is an additional burden or “obligation” to be done on the contrary it can be a perfect tool to relieve stress.
Yes, it has been proven that it is a perfect way to relieve stress. First and foremost, a good copulation equates good mood. So, if you want your husband or you to be always grinning from ear to ear try to get some great dose of coitus every night. And add some color into it, don’t just wham it then snore yourself to sleep.
Give time for foreplays. If both of you are tired and exhausted from all the days work, rub some massage oil with each other and take turns giving a very sensual massage. A sensual massage is always one of the best foreplay there is and of course a perfect way to relieve stress.
Here are some more reasons why intercourse is an excellent way to relieve stress. It includes deep breathing. Deep, relaxed breathing relaxes stressed- out body and oxygenates the blood. Aside from deep breathing, the sense of touch soothes every anxiety and worry, making you feel comforted and supported. And scientifically speaking, during copulation, your body releases endorphins, the hormone responsible for making you feel good all over.
The physical work out involved during intercourse is also a certain way to relieve stress but don’t over do the physical activity or you’ll suffer from over fatigue. How to relieve stress using sex is the most effective way to bring back the spark to your relationship. So, instead of using other alternatives to relieve stress why not use sex with your one and only instead, it’s good for you.
Jumat, 10 Februari 2012
Sexual Pleasure Your Man Would Love For You To Know
by: Ruth Purple
Ever been curious to know what mind blowing sexual pleasure your man would truly appreciate? More important, what tricks a girl does to really thrill him and maximize each level of bliss he hits. We’d probably think that one has to know how a guy thinks and understand his bodily function.
So, what exactly are ways to make him want you bad? A guy’s desire can be triggered by almost anything, a subtle stroke, a provocative visual, the sound of a woman’s voice at a certain pitch. As soon as you man’s mind switch over to sex, his body begins to prickle with anticipation.
The male mind holds great power over his physical state, so the key to pleasure your man is to use teasing preplay moves that will make him ache for you. Take advantage of his physically on edge–state. Keep him guessing where your lips and strokes will hit next which are some ways to make him want you.
Show him that you feel the difference in intensity. To pleasure your man, try to get a little rough with him from time to time. Allow his passion to be both contained and provoked. Pay attention to his shoulder blades, spine and butt. Before you take him to heaven, lightly scratch those nails over those areas.
The nerves near his spine and waist are directly connected to his package. Then flick the tiny knob of flesh on the underside of his penis head with the flat of your tongue. Sending that shock through his system before he enters you will trigger a chain reaction that would pleasure your man.
If you sense your guy’s drive is dwindling, whip out some dirty talks. Tell your guy how hot you feel with him inside you, and throw out some sexy requests. Create the cocktail of sensations to pleasure your man by giving him what he craves. Just remember, don’t loose him too soon.
Pay attention to his body, and slow down when he reaches over drive. The longer you keep him in this holding pattern, the more pleasurable the explosion will be for him and the more you are likely to get yours. Stimulate him throughout the orgasm is important to pleasure your man.
You can do that by pulling your guy deep inside you as he ejaculates to create an intense, powerfully connected sensation. While sensitivity subsides, trace your fingertips over the upper half of his body. These movements soothe his skin and reinforce your bond to a loving relationship.
Ever been curious to know what mind blowing sexual pleasure your man would truly appreciate? More important, what tricks a girl does to really thrill him and maximize each level of bliss he hits. We’d probably think that one has to know how a guy thinks and understand his bodily function.
So, what exactly are ways to make him want you bad? A guy’s desire can be triggered by almost anything, a subtle stroke, a provocative visual, the sound of a woman’s voice at a certain pitch. As soon as you man’s mind switch over to sex, his body begins to prickle with anticipation.
The male mind holds great power over his physical state, so the key to pleasure your man is to use teasing preplay moves that will make him ache for you. Take advantage of his physically on edge–state. Keep him guessing where your lips and strokes will hit next which are some ways to make him want you.
Show him that you feel the difference in intensity. To pleasure your man, try to get a little rough with him from time to time. Allow his passion to be both contained and provoked. Pay attention to his shoulder blades, spine and butt. Before you take him to heaven, lightly scratch those nails over those areas.
The nerves near his spine and waist are directly connected to his package. Then flick the tiny knob of flesh on the underside of his penis head with the flat of your tongue. Sending that shock through his system before he enters you will trigger a chain reaction that would pleasure your man.
If you sense your guy’s drive is dwindling, whip out some dirty talks. Tell your guy how hot you feel with him inside you, and throw out some sexy requests. Create the cocktail of sensations to pleasure your man by giving him what he craves. Just remember, don’t loose him too soon.
Pay attention to his body, and slow down when he reaches over drive. The longer you keep him in this holding pattern, the more pleasurable the explosion will be for him and the more you are likely to get yours. Stimulate him throughout the orgasm is important to pleasure your man.
You can do that by pulling your guy deep inside you as he ejaculates to create an intense, powerfully connected sensation. While sensitivity subsides, trace your fingertips over the upper half of his body. These movements soothe his skin and reinforce your bond to a loving relationship.
Sexy Marketing is the Name of the Game
by: Kaye Z. Marks
Anticipation is the name of the game. This is to suggest that one of the best ways to market is to create anticipation from your target clients. Why do movies have trailers? Why are movie trailers shown months before the actual showing of the film?
Why are there words like coming soon? You guessed that right. Anticipation. Trailers are like teasers – they build the drama, the anticipation, the excitement. This is one way to market a product or service.
Now use this concept for your product or services by teasing your target clients. The more intrigued they get, the more they become excited. Have you ever wondered why you are drawn to a crowd who is watching something? You find yourself straining to see what the fuss is about. Admit it or not, the crowd does draw you because you are intrigued by what captured their attention.
One way to do this is by distributing teasers like flyers or print brochures to tease target clients about an up and coming product or service. Try to give them a glimpse of what they are going to expect – just like your movie trailers. Give them a glimpse of what they are to look forward to without giving away the entire plot. Make your brochure printing work for you by keeping them so interested. Reveal only what is necessary until your target clients are hooked.
Anticipation marketing, if we can call it that, not only introduces a new product or service, it also keeps the excitement going as early as the pre-launch stage. Until such time that you finally unveil your new product or service, you can feed the excitement. Start by giving your customers a glimpse then move on to giving more details without giving away everything. Build the excitement until your customers can no longer contain it – then you reach a climax.
When you employ this strategy, remember the following tips:
Build the excitement but do not keep them waiting too long. Foreplay is good; but overdoing things will not do you any better. Holding off until climax is good; but it is also a better idea not to drag your marketing strategy for far too long that your target clients get frustrated waiting for it. Before wearing out your clients’ patience, launch the offer with the right timing.
Be enigmatic. Let imaginations run wild. Tease – that is the name of the game. Offer something little by little. Do not reveal everything in one print brochure. This is not a one shot deal. Undress your product slowly by tossing print brochures one piece at a time.
The key to using this strategy is sustaining the momentum. You cannot start something that will fizzle out. You have to sustain the buildup; but be sure that the product or service is as good as the foreplay, otherwise, well….
Visit http://www.printplace.com/printing/brochure-printing.aspx for more information.
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Anticipation is the name of the game. This is to suggest that one of the best ways to market is to create anticipation from your target clients. Why do movies have trailers? Why are movie trailers shown months before the actual showing of the film?
Why are there words like coming soon? You guessed that right. Anticipation. Trailers are like teasers – they build the drama, the anticipation, the excitement. This is one way to market a product or service.
Now use this concept for your product or services by teasing your target clients. The more intrigued they get, the more they become excited. Have you ever wondered why you are drawn to a crowd who is watching something? You find yourself straining to see what the fuss is about. Admit it or not, the crowd does draw you because you are intrigued by what captured their attention.
One way to do this is by distributing teasers like flyers or print brochures to tease target clients about an up and coming product or service. Try to give them a glimpse of what they are going to expect – just like your movie trailers. Give them a glimpse of what they are to look forward to without giving away the entire plot. Make your brochure printing work for you by keeping them so interested. Reveal only what is necessary until your target clients are hooked.
Anticipation marketing, if we can call it that, not only introduces a new product or service, it also keeps the excitement going as early as the pre-launch stage. Until such time that you finally unveil your new product or service, you can feed the excitement. Start by giving your customers a glimpse then move on to giving more details without giving away everything. Build the excitement until your customers can no longer contain it – then you reach a climax.
When you employ this strategy, remember the following tips:
Build the excitement but do not keep them waiting too long. Foreplay is good; but overdoing things will not do you any better. Holding off until climax is good; but it is also a better idea not to drag your marketing strategy for far too long that your target clients get frustrated waiting for it. Before wearing out your clients’ patience, launch the offer with the right timing.
Be enigmatic. Let imaginations run wild. Tease – that is the name of the game. Offer something little by little. Do not reveal everything in one print brochure. This is not a one shot deal. Undress your product slowly by tossing print brochures one piece at a time.
The key to using this strategy is sustaining the momentum. You cannot start something that will fizzle out. You have to sustain the buildup; but be sure that the product or service is as good as the foreplay, otherwise, well….
Visit http://www.printplace.com/printing/brochure-printing.aspx for more information.
brochure printing, print brochures, anticipation marketing, brochures
Why Sex Is Important To Men
by: Ruth Purple
I know, I know some would say that what a ridiculous statement, of course it is important to men but why? Some say that they think about it twenty three hours a day, seven days a week. Even the most famous psychologist, Freud agreed that it is the main goal of men- to get sex when they need it.
To them it signifies power and success. To majority of them money, power and success is futile if you can’t get it. Some would deny it and say “no, it is not everything. It’s not my end all and be all motivation” if you are one of these male population, then good for you, you are a minority, believe me.
One proof of this is the ever thriving sex trade, right? It is the oldest trade in history and it only advances as the years go by. They say the weakness of men is women but I say their weakness is what women can offer and it is sex. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that men are shallow creatures.
On the contrary, I believe that this creates a balance in the universe. Sex is important to men because of so many reasons. Aside that it really feels great. It has to do with the old age inculcation that they should spread their seeds and genes as much as they can for the survival of the species.
During the old days men have several wives. As a matter of fact, even today in some countries, concubines and mistresses are an acceptable practice to multiply the man’s gene pool. In this case sex is important for the continued existence of the species. On a personal note, I don’t feel comfortable with this idea at all.
It makes human beings no less than bears and dogs, if you know what I mean. Another reason why sex is important to men is because of their biological make up. They have more testosterone than women. Testosterone is responsible for the sexual drive of a person, the more the testosterone the more sexually driven the person is.
This is why they have an inborn need for it. Another point why sex is important to men is because it’s the only way for them to communicate their feelings. Deprive them of it and you deprive their feelings and their being. Sex is to men and listening is to women.
If you’re a woman and your husband never listens to you, what do you do? You call your girlfriend or whoever you want to listen to you, right? For men, deprive them of sex and he will look for it somewhere else. It’s not just a biological need for them.
It’s also an emotional need- this is one of the major ways that you can make him feel that he belongs. Sex is important because it’s the only way that they can get their “power”. If you’re a wife and have been married for quite some time, change your point of view about it, if you want your husband to feel good and accepted and become productive at work, never deprive him of it.
Communicate to him through his language he is very familiar with. When making love, use more touches and caresses and kisses, embrace him more. In your love making make him feel that he is accepted and truly loved and cared for. Make it intimate and make it fun, listen to him when he makes love because if you listen to him inside the bedroom he will listen to you outside the bedroom.
I know, I know some would say that what a ridiculous statement, of course it is important to men but why? Some say that they think about it twenty three hours a day, seven days a week. Even the most famous psychologist, Freud agreed that it is the main goal of men- to get sex when they need it.
To them it signifies power and success. To majority of them money, power and success is futile if you can’t get it. Some would deny it and say “no, it is not everything. It’s not my end all and be all motivation” if you are one of these male population, then good for you, you are a minority, believe me.
One proof of this is the ever thriving sex trade, right? It is the oldest trade in history and it only advances as the years go by. They say the weakness of men is women but I say their weakness is what women can offer and it is sex. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that men are shallow creatures.
On the contrary, I believe that this creates a balance in the universe. Sex is important to men because of so many reasons. Aside that it really feels great. It has to do with the old age inculcation that they should spread their seeds and genes as much as they can for the survival of the species.
During the old days men have several wives. As a matter of fact, even today in some countries, concubines and mistresses are an acceptable practice to multiply the man’s gene pool. In this case sex is important for the continued existence of the species. On a personal note, I don’t feel comfortable with this idea at all.
It makes human beings no less than bears and dogs, if you know what I mean. Another reason why sex is important to men is because of their biological make up. They have more testosterone than women. Testosterone is responsible for the sexual drive of a person, the more the testosterone the more sexually driven the person is.
This is why they have an inborn need for it. Another point why sex is important to men is because it’s the only way for them to communicate their feelings. Deprive them of it and you deprive their feelings and their being. Sex is to men and listening is to women.
If you’re a woman and your husband never listens to you, what do you do? You call your girlfriend or whoever you want to listen to you, right? For men, deprive them of sex and he will look for it somewhere else. It’s not just a biological need for them.
It’s also an emotional need- this is one of the major ways that you can make him feel that he belongs. Sex is important because it’s the only way that they can get their “power”. If you’re a wife and have been married for quite some time, change your point of view about it, if you want your husband to feel good and accepted and become productive at work, never deprive him of it.
Communicate to him through his language he is very familiar with. When making love, use more touches and caresses and kisses, embrace him more. In your love making make him feel that he is accepted and truly loved and cared for. Make it intimate and make it fun, listen to him when he makes love because if you listen to him inside the bedroom he will listen to you outside the bedroom.
Losing Her Interest In Sex? Cure Your Premature Ejaculation
by: Ruth Purple
Men hate to talk about this. It’s either they deny the problem and shove it off in the back of their minds or they are too embarrassed to discuss it. For those with innocent minds, let me explain to you what premature ejaculation is, it is the most common sexual dysfunction.
It is a man’s inability to keep it up. Some say that it is being gauged from the time of penetration to the time of ejaculation but personally I think it is based on the ability to wait for his woman to climax. If you are suffering from any physiological aspect that contributes to your premature ejaculation, then go and get help, for goodness sake! But on the other hand, if the issue here is other than physiological then better do something about it.
A man who premature ejaculates without any clinical reason is just so inconsiderate. It is a small price to pay to conquer your ego than to give your woman a headache. On average they say that men ejaculate 3 minutes from penetration to orgasm. We women call it the 3 minute- marathon.
You know that your have a 3- minute man if you make love with the television on and he finishes off before the commercial. But seriously, the issue about premature ejaculation is control. And being a “man” is all about control. That’s why when you have a premature ejaculation issues, there is a stigma that you are less of a man.
But I say, it takes a man to conquer his weaknesses for the satisfaction of his woman. To help you with that, my sturdy young reader, here are some few ways on how to stop premature ejaculation. One helpful tip is to get to know your territory. This means you should be more aware of yourself when you are about to climax so that you can control it.
Try using the “start and stop” method. This is when you familiarize yourself with the sensation before orgasm then you stop it. You can master this through practice. Masturbation is one technique, at least now you have an excuse to masturbate regularly. Another technique on how to stop premature ejaculation is through proper breathing.
Not the laborious kind of breathing but the deep, easy and relaxed breathing. Another way to cure your premature ejaculation is through communication. Tell your partner what you can and cannot take anymore. This is can really spice up your sex life because this involves provocative words like, “Yes…that’s it more, more…” or “hold it” “wait” or “slowly” or “stop”.
If it’s not a clinical issue then there is nothing that communication cannot solve. If you’re really having a hard time, try some desensitizing creams. My point here is your problem has a solution.
Men hate to talk about this. It’s either they deny the problem and shove it off in the back of their minds or they are too embarrassed to discuss it. For those with innocent minds, let me explain to you what premature ejaculation is, it is the most common sexual dysfunction.
It is a man’s inability to keep it up. Some say that it is being gauged from the time of penetration to the time of ejaculation but personally I think it is based on the ability to wait for his woman to climax. If you are suffering from any physiological aspect that contributes to your premature ejaculation, then go and get help, for goodness sake! But on the other hand, if the issue here is other than physiological then better do something about it.
A man who premature ejaculates without any clinical reason is just so inconsiderate. It is a small price to pay to conquer your ego than to give your woman a headache. On average they say that men ejaculate 3 minutes from penetration to orgasm. We women call it the 3 minute- marathon.
You know that your have a 3- minute man if you make love with the television on and he finishes off before the commercial. But seriously, the issue about premature ejaculation is control. And being a “man” is all about control. That’s why when you have a premature ejaculation issues, there is a stigma that you are less of a man.
But I say, it takes a man to conquer his weaknesses for the satisfaction of his woman. To help you with that, my sturdy young reader, here are some few ways on how to stop premature ejaculation. One helpful tip is to get to know your territory. This means you should be more aware of yourself when you are about to climax so that you can control it.
Try using the “start and stop” method. This is when you familiarize yourself with the sensation before orgasm then you stop it. You can master this through practice. Masturbation is one technique, at least now you have an excuse to masturbate regularly. Another technique on how to stop premature ejaculation is through proper breathing.
Not the laborious kind of breathing but the deep, easy and relaxed breathing. Another way to cure your premature ejaculation is through communication. Tell your partner what you can and cannot take anymore. This is can really spice up your sex life because this involves provocative words like, “Yes…that’s it more, more…” or “hold it” “wait” or “slowly” or “stop”.
If it’s not a clinical issue then there is nothing that communication cannot solve. If you’re really having a hard time, try some desensitizing creams. My point here is your problem has a solution.
Sexual Confidence Boosters For Him
by: Ruth Purple
Not all men are born like Casanova, whose amorous charms no woman can resist. It is not unusual for men to experience a sudden lack of sexual confidence around women. In fact, a lot of guys usually feel some form of anxiety because of being unsure of what to do to satisfy their partner in bed.
As a result, they end up projecting a nervous attitude towards sex which seriously affects their performance in the bedroom. However, there are also men who just seem to have such incredible confidence with women, even if they are obviously lacking a lot in the looks department. Men are quite mistaken if they think that confidence is all about one’s looks.
In fact, it has very little to nothing to do with a person’s physical qualities. Sexual confidence mostly comes from the inside—it’s being able to understand and determine what’s right for you, be it your looks, clothing or personality. A lot of guys usually have very little confidence in being able to turn on a woman physically, much less impress her with his amazing sexual prowess.
It is important for a man to project an image of a sexually confident guy—the type of guy who knows how to light the fire deep inside a woman. To do this, one must be an expert in the field of giving her an incredible sexual experience. Read on for some very useful tips: Any man who wants women to have strong feelings for him and arouse the sexual emotions inside her must know how to get in touch with his inner animal.
This may sound boggling, but it’s actually pretty simple—just avoid being overly logical, analytical, guarded, and overly educated. When you let your inner animal out it means that one must maintain a relaxed attitude towards sex. Remind yourself that it’s a completely natural part of the relationship. Sure, there’s always the possibility that something bad can happen—simply learn to keep having fun and acting light.
Try to progress from one step to the next easily and with confidence. You’ll find that the teasing and anticipation will surely turn her on and drive her crazy. Turning on a woman and pushing the right buttons is hardly rocket science. Sometimes men just need to be attentive to be able to read her actions correctly.
Men must understand that when a woman says one thing, it usually means something else. When she tries to stop you, chances are you just didn’t get her turned on enough—not that you have to stop doing something altogether. Again, just relax and try to get her even more turned on—explore and figure out what pleases her and what drives her crazy with passion.
Often, sexual confidence is a result of being adept at understanding women and knowing her needs even if she doesn’t give one hint of what it really is. Once you have mastered this, you are well on your way to becoming the best lover she has ever had!
Not all men are born like Casanova, whose amorous charms no woman can resist. It is not unusual for men to experience a sudden lack of sexual confidence around women. In fact, a lot of guys usually feel some form of anxiety because of being unsure of what to do to satisfy their partner in bed.
As a result, they end up projecting a nervous attitude towards sex which seriously affects their performance in the bedroom. However, there are also men who just seem to have such incredible confidence with women, even if they are obviously lacking a lot in the looks department. Men are quite mistaken if they think that confidence is all about one’s looks.
In fact, it has very little to nothing to do with a person’s physical qualities. Sexual confidence mostly comes from the inside—it’s being able to understand and determine what’s right for you, be it your looks, clothing or personality. A lot of guys usually have very little confidence in being able to turn on a woman physically, much less impress her with his amazing sexual prowess.
It is important for a man to project an image of a sexually confident guy—the type of guy who knows how to light the fire deep inside a woman. To do this, one must be an expert in the field of giving her an incredible sexual experience. Read on for some very useful tips: Any man who wants women to have strong feelings for him and arouse the sexual emotions inside her must know how to get in touch with his inner animal.
This may sound boggling, but it’s actually pretty simple—just avoid being overly logical, analytical, guarded, and overly educated. When you let your inner animal out it means that one must maintain a relaxed attitude towards sex. Remind yourself that it’s a completely natural part of the relationship. Sure, there’s always the possibility that something bad can happen—simply learn to keep having fun and acting light.
Try to progress from one step to the next easily and with confidence. You’ll find that the teasing and anticipation will surely turn her on and drive her crazy. Turning on a woman and pushing the right buttons is hardly rocket science. Sometimes men just need to be attentive to be able to read her actions correctly.
Men must understand that when a woman says one thing, it usually means something else. When she tries to stop you, chances are you just didn’t get her turned on enough—not that you have to stop doing something altogether. Again, just relax and try to get her even more turned on—explore and figure out what pleases her and what drives her crazy with passion.
Often, sexual confidence is a result of being adept at understanding women and knowing her needs even if she doesn’t give one hint of what it really is. Once you have mastered this, you are well on your way to becoming the best lover she has ever had!
Is It Important To Discuss Your Sexual History?
by: Ruth Purple
In just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for some may only mean fun and games, for a lot of people it is an expression not only of love and passion, but of trust as well.
Only a very few singles today uphold virginity, so it’s no surprise when a person who becomes involved in yet another relationship has already been sexually active before. Thus, it is essential to talk about each other’s sexual history before making your way into the bedroom and into each other’s pants.
Discussing each other’s sexual histories can be quite uncomfortable, but it is one topic that can be very helpful in making or breaking your relationship. Of course there’s no need to have a list of one’s former sexual partners – the point of this discussion is to be fully aware if your partner has a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) or has ever been exposed to one.
A sexually active person must always remember that one’s health and safety should always come first, and engaging in sexual activity with another person can always lead to certain health risks that could have been avoided in the first place. It is easy to be blinded and be naive in the initial stages of a relationship, especially if one is “head over heels” with his/her partner.
However, it is important to be somewhat cautious than to have blinding trust with a person early on. A lot of people have paid the price for looking at their partner through a rose-colored glass: everything is absolutely sweet and romantic and new, and it seems that nothing can go wrong.
Unfortunately for some, being completely trusting only paves the way for trouble, since a lot of people have no qualms about lying about their feelings and sexual history just to get someone to bed. Keeping one’s eyes and ears open is not being irrationally suspicious; it is actually a wise approach when coming into a new relationship that could turn out to be not-so-perfect after all.
Young or old, it is always sensible to have safe sex. A lot of people think that having protected sex is only for one-night stands and paid escorts, never for a boyfriend or a girlfriend. This is a usual misconception, and quite a number have learned the value of using a condom or any protective device.
Sure, putting on a condom may be cumbersome, and may lessen the pleasurable sensation during intercourse for a few. But hey, it’s a small price to pay for ensuring your wellbeing and health, right? The distress and anxiety that Sexually Transmitted Infections can cause will definitely overshadow the inconvenience of using a condom or any protection.
Keeping healthy and safe nowadays is essential, especially with the growing cases of AIDS, HIV, STD’s and STI’s. Although more people are becoming vigilant and advocate safe sex, there are still a lot who go on having multiple partners and unprotected sex. It is always sensible to know your partner’s sexual history and to know the truth; at the end of the day, it’s all up to you when it comes to safe sex.
In just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for some may only mean fun and games, for a lot of people it is an expression not only of love and passion, but of trust as well.
Only a very few singles today uphold virginity, so it’s no surprise when a person who becomes involved in yet another relationship has already been sexually active before. Thus, it is essential to talk about each other’s sexual history before making your way into the bedroom and into each other’s pants.
Discussing each other’s sexual histories can be quite uncomfortable, but it is one topic that can be very helpful in making or breaking your relationship. Of course there’s no need to have a list of one’s former sexual partners – the point of this discussion is to be fully aware if your partner has a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) or has ever been exposed to one.
A sexually active person must always remember that one’s health and safety should always come first, and engaging in sexual activity with another person can always lead to certain health risks that could have been avoided in the first place. It is easy to be blinded and be naive in the initial stages of a relationship, especially if one is “head over heels” with his/her partner.
However, it is important to be somewhat cautious than to have blinding trust with a person early on. A lot of people have paid the price for looking at their partner through a rose-colored glass: everything is absolutely sweet and romantic and new, and it seems that nothing can go wrong.
Unfortunately for some, being completely trusting only paves the way for trouble, since a lot of people have no qualms about lying about their feelings and sexual history just to get someone to bed. Keeping one’s eyes and ears open is not being irrationally suspicious; it is actually a wise approach when coming into a new relationship that could turn out to be not-so-perfect after all.
Young or old, it is always sensible to have safe sex. A lot of people think that having protected sex is only for one-night stands and paid escorts, never for a boyfriend or a girlfriend. This is a usual misconception, and quite a number have learned the value of using a condom or any protective device.
Sure, putting on a condom may be cumbersome, and may lessen the pleasurable sensation during intercourse for a few. But hey, it’s a small price to pay for ensuring your wellbeing and health, right? The distress and anxiety that Sexually Transmitted Infections can cause will definitely overshadow the inconvenience of using a condom or any protection.
Keeping healthy and safe nowadays is essential, especially with the growing cases of AIDS, HIV, STD’s and STI’s. Although more people are becoming vigilant and advocate safe sex, there are still a lot who go on having multiple partners and unprotected sex. It is always sensible to know your partner’s sexual history and to know the truth; at the end of the day, it’s all up to you when it comes to safe sex.
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